The House of Mirth: Book II, Chapters VII and VIII

Edith Wharton's The House of Mirth is packed full of a series of themes pertaining to the structure of society. Miss Bart begins to stress a great deal about her economic position. While having a discussion with Miss Ferish, Miss Bart explains that, "The man pays it by big tips to his servants, by playing cards beyond his means, by flowers and presents-- and-- lots of other things that cost" (Wharton, 216). Finally Miss Bart is able to come forward and express what society is truly like. Society requires a person to spend their money to excess if one desires to be considered wealthy and important. Even though Miss Bart is, "Sick to death of it," the addiction and dependency on the wealthy lifestyle makes her not want to give it up (Wharton, 217). This dialogue between Miss Farish and Miss Bart allows the reader to fully understand how stressful and sickening living a rich life can be. I believe this is a big theme and message that Wharton is trying to get across throughout the entire novel. Through Miss Bart's lack of sleep as a result of worrying too much about her debts, Wharton is able to show the reader that being wealthy is not as easy as it looks. This section challenges the reader to think twice on whether they truly want to live the "American Dream."